Why It Works

When it comes to love, all logic and reason seems to go out the window. Why? Why do normally sensible people do seemingly crazy things in the name of love? Why do crimes of passion happen? And why do people consistently repeat the same mistakes in relationships.

Our relationship patterns are as a result of programming

From childhood we start learning our relationship patterns from our parents, friends, and other people around us, the media, society all play key roles. If you're lucky, and you've learned a good blue print type relationship, you are very likely to have a successful love life. However, if some of that information we're given is incorrect, it means our natural programme for creating and sustaining healthy relationships is disrupted. Break unhealthy relationship patterns

People have so many different and often complex problems with their relationships (or lack of relationships). What they all have in common is that program for a successful, loving relationship is missing data or infected with a mind virus.

Problems stored in your conscious mind are not problems. Problems in your conscious mind are worked out quickly as you have the necessary information ready at hand. Therefore, they are not problems but challenges that you can easily resolve yourself.

However, no amount of counseling, talking therapy or listening to great advice can tackle real problems, because they're trying to address the issues in the wrong place. These methods work with our everyday conscious minds, not where the unwanted behaviour programs are stored. It's a bit like looking in your sock drawer for the milk - a complete waste of time that doesn’t make sense.

Make changes where they matter

By working with your inner, subconscious mind, where the issues are stored, you're far more likely to get a result that lasts.

This is what the Austin 5 Step Program is all about and why it includes deep hypnotic relaxation. Hypnosis, which is really just a heightened state of awareness, is the way to communicate with the subconscious. It's also the optimum state for learning, which means it provides the quickest way to learn new thoughts, feelings and ways of behaving.

Other therapies such as CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) where you literally have to consciously practice being better at relationships can work for some people, because if you practice something enough it can eventually sink in. However it requires determination, a lot of practice, and is still less effective than even the most basic suggestion hypnotherapy, that works with the subconscious mind.

Fix your program for love

The way to re-program your relationship patterns is to go into a deep relaxation, or hypnosis, where your mind is more aware and able to learn fast. Suggestions or ideas given to you in this state are like running a virus check and installing a new software for success.

For a few people, mind viruses can be more severe and a specialist, like a computer hacker, would need to be called in. For example a problem may need extra work if there is a 'hidden trauma incident' that is preventing the new software or ‘suggestion’ from working. Then you should look to make an appointment with our advanced hypnotherapy specialists, working with age regression to deal with it properly, such as Valerie or Katie.

However, many mind viruses can be easily be dealt with at home, using the same tools as more ‘generalist’ hypnotherapists. These tools and more are all supplied with your Austin 5 Step Program and enable you to create a very professional suggestion hypnosis therapy in your own private space by following the instructions carefully.